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note to self: i’ll be there for you, always

written june 6, 2021. Photo by Kristine Cinate on Unsplash I have always looked for myself in other people. I think the idea was that they would somehow hold the pieces of me that I felt were missing. That maybe, if I wrapped my identity up in theirs enough, we would somehow make a whole person. It's not healthy to live like this, but I did it anyway — burning through relationships and searching for something I couldn't quite name. It was never enough, not to be myself, but it was never enough to latch my identity to other people, either. I got close, several times — I thought I had reached the pinnacle of self discovery. I thought I had completed myself. But in the end, relying on other people to help build yourself is never a viable way to do things. It's only recently that I've started to become comfortable with the idea of being enough, as I am, on my own. Several years ago, in this same position, I would have searched for another person to attach my identity onto,

Disneyland {Day 14: A Vacation I'd Like to Take}

Well, I'm quite sorry, but I can't pick just one. I'd love to go just about anywhere. However, if I HAD to choose one, it would be...

Disneyland. Enough said.
The last time I went there, I was 6 months old. Needless to say, I don't remember anything.

Actually, I'd be happy to get anyplace that I can smell salty sea air and feel sand between my toes. (Sad to say, I've never been to the beach.) That includes Oregon, Pennsylvania, Washington, and Florida.

I'd still like to go to Disneyland (or World) with my family in order to create memories that will last forever. And I firmly believe that you are never too old for Disney. So whether I'm 16 or 160 when we go... I'm sure I'll love it. No matter what.


  1. Now you made me want the beach!! ;)

    I think you'd really like the beach, its so pretty in the morning, especially taking walks. But remember that when you go you should bring a jacket, because the mornings are cold by the water! :)

  2. Ooh, fun Sky dear!! :)

    I LOVE the beach. My family and I go at least once or twice per Summer, but, as iGirl said, it does get awfully chilly with the wind coming off the water. :P

    How sad is this: I live in CA, yet have never been to Disneyland. :P

    Love and Hugs, NW sister,


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