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note to self: i’ll be there for you, always

written june 6, 2021. Photo by Kristine Cinate on Unsplash I have always looked for myself in other people. I think the idea was that they would somehow hold the pieces of me that I felt were missing. That maybe, if I wrapped my identity up in theirs enough, we would somehow make a whole person. It's not healthy to live like this, but I did it anyway — burning through relationships and searching for something I couldn't quite name. It was never enough, not to be myself, but it was never enough to latch my identity to other people, either. I got close, several times — I thought I had reached the pinnacle of self discovery. I thought I had completed myself. But in the end, relying on other people to help build yourself is never a viable way to do things. It's only recently that I've started to become comfortable with the idea of being enough, as I am, on my own. Several years ago, in this same position, I would have searched for another person to attach my identity onto,

I took the plunge

Oh, hello there. Do you notice anything, say... different about this site?

Chances are, you do. I did a totally new design over the past few days, and I decided to put it up tonight.

So, I took the plunge.



I'm still working out a few kinks, but I couldn't wait before putting it up. Thoughts?


  1. i love it Sky!! very nice :)

    I miss you tons!! hopefully we can catch each other one of these days :)

    love you!♥

  2. it's lovely!!!! That header is very classy and nice. ;)

    miss you!



    I love the purple and the picture for the header and it's calm but not too plain. I love it!!!!

  4. Ooh, i love that quote at the top of your blog. very cool.

  5. It looks lovely, Sky! =D I especially love the header photo--it really brings to mind the meaning of your blog's title. =)

  6. Ok, so I loved your last template...a lot. But this...this is awesome. <3 Just sayin'.

  7. Oo! So pretty! I love the new header and look :D very cool.



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