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note to self: i’ll be there for you, always

written june 6, 2021. Photo by Kristine Cinate on Unsplash I have always looked for myself in other people. I think the idea was that they would somehow hold the pieces of me that I felt were missing. That maybe, if I wrapped my identity up in theirs enough, we would somehow make a whole person. It's not healthy to live like this, but I did it anyway — burning through relationships and searching for something I couldn't quite name. It was never enough, not to be myself, but it was never enough to latch my identity to other people, either. I got close, several times — I thought I had reached the pinnacle of self discovery. I thought I had completed myself. But in the end, relying on other people to help build yourself is never a viable way to do things. It's only recently that I've started to become comfortable with the idea of being enough, as I am, on my own. Several years ago, in this same position, I would have searched for another person to attach my identity onto,

To Change... Or Not To Change

Hi! I'm thinking about changing my blog to something a little more Narnia-ish, maybe a blog with a banner strip across the top with Aslan or something and have a backround of dark red; the color of the lion on Peter's shield. I'm also thinking about changing the
name of my blog to “Further Up and Further In”. What do you think? please post a comment and tell me. Bye, Kylie PS~ I'd also like to thank the people who put me on their friends list, mainly Ashley (CrazyAboutMonkeys) and Lauren (laurenkjoyce) and sagerats. Thanks a lot!!!!!!!!!!!


  1. i think that's an awesome idea! although i would make sure the background's not too dark because blog design do make impressions and we don't want anyone thinking your blog is dark. of course, that's just me, so you can do whatever you want :))
    -jocee <3


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