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note to self: i’ll be there for you, always

written june 6, 2021. Photo by Kristine Cinate on Unsplash I have always looked for myself in other people. I think the idea was that they would somehow hold the pieces of me that I felt were missing. That maybe, if I wrapped my identity up in theirs enough, we would somehow make a whole person. It's not healthy to live like this, but I did it anyway — burning through relationships and searching for something I couldn't quite name. It was never enough, not to be myself, but it was never enough to latch my identity to other people, either. I got close, several times — I thought I had reached the pinnacle of self discovery. I thought I had completed myself. But in the end, relying on other people to help build yourself is never a viable way to do things. It's only recently that I've started to become comfortable with the idea of being enough, as I am, on my own. Several years ago, in this same position, I would have searched for another person to attach my identity onto,

Chocolate Cake, Anyone?

Watch this. Crack up. Then go make your own.

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P.S. - No, I'm not leaving Blogger! How could I? ;) My Tumblr is just for those random bits of inspiration and awesomeness. :) I'll be back to post again soon!


  1. I love these videos!!! I just think they're wonderful. Isn't it wonderful? Oh, sorry.

  2. Hahahahahaha!! I had no idea that Josh Groban had so much funny in him! I love his music, but I would never have thought that he was funny. Also, I didn't know that carrots had vitamin 'vrmmf', interesting.


  3. Oh, my. Didn't know he was that funny. :D Hilarious!!

  4. Amazingly, hilariously awesome. I literally laughed out loud!

    And you know what's funny? We have those same stainless steel mixing bowls in our kitchen. LOL!

  5. well.....Josh certainly is pretty funny! :D
    miss you a bunch, girl!! Oh, and I awarded you. ;)

    loooooove ya,


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