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note to self: i’ll be there for you, always

written june 6, 2021. Photo by Kristine Cinate on Unsplash I have always looked for myself in other people. I think the idea was that they would somehow hold the pieces of me that I felt were missing. That maybe, if I wrapped my identity up in theirs enough, we would somehow make a whole person. It's not healthy to live like this, but I did it anyway — burning through relationships and searching for something I couldn't quite name. It was never enough, not to be myself, but it was never enough to latch my identity to other people, either. I got close, several times — I thought I had reached the pinnacle of self discovery. I thought I had completed myself. But in the end, relying on other people to help build yourself is never a viable way to do things. It's only recently that I've started to become comfortable with the idea of being enough, as I am, on my own. Several years ago, in this same position, I would have searched for another person to attach my identity onto,...
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adventures in dictating

Ladies and gentlemen, may I present--adventures in dictating.

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:: a few notes ::

1. The random NAZI is because I was trying to tell my cat to get off the table. True story.

2. This was when NaNoWriMo was still happening 
so that's why I wrote that I wasn't sure what was happening with it.
Trust me, I know what's happening with NaNo now. More on that later.

3. New blog design. Check it out.

4. I hope you're all doing well. 
Hopefully I'll feel up to posting on this dear old blog soon. :)

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  1. ashley tahgDecember 4, 2012 at 9:57 AM

    Random NAZI should be added to our Tea Spitter's vocabulary. It should be used whenever someone is distracting us from our goal.

    ;D

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  2. ElizabethDecember 4, 2012 at 12:47 PM

    I like your new blog design!

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  3. Christine SmithDecember 4, 2012 at 2:05 PM

    The new blog design is completely GORGEOUS!!! I love it!

    I look forward to hearing how your NaNo went. ^_^ I cannot believe it's already over. November went by so quickly!

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    1. Sky DestrianDecember 4, 2012 at 5:43 PM

      Thanks so much, Lauriloth! Good to hear from you. Your comment made me smile.

      Indeed! It did go by very fast. I look forward to posting about my NaNo! Did you end up doing it yourself as well?

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    2. Christine SmithDecember 6, 2012 at 2:44 PM

      I did do NaNo, indeed. ^_^ I had a wonderful one! Still scrambling around trying to actually finish my novel though. Hoping to have it done by New Year's...hopefully. Eheh.

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  4. Emily ChapmanDecember 4, 2012 at 5:41 PM

    Ooh, Sky, I dearly love your new blog design! :)

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